Is to love yourself well.
If you do the magic to love yourself you won’t undermine your own happiness trying to get a loser who left you back just so they can hurt you over again.
If you do the magic to love yourself first, you’ll know what loving you is like when you see it and you won’t miss it when someone really loves you.
If you do the magic to love yourself first you won’t *have to* make anyone else love you because you will already be loved well.
The kinds of love magic you do after you did the magic to love yourself well will be different and dare I say more successful than before.
It’s not easy magic, but it’s satisfying.